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ADOPTION

The Baby Fold
612 Oglesby Avenue
Normal, IL 61761
Phone: (309) 454-1770
Fax: (309) 454-9257

The Baby Fold provides adoption services to children of all ages, their birth family members, and their adoptive parents, throughout the lives of the individuals involved. Adoption provides permanent homes for children who are unable to have that permanence with their own birth families. Most children in need of adoptive homes have been in foster homes; many require a range of therapeutic services to help them build trusting relationships with adults and succeed in adoptive placements. The Baby Fold also works with birth parents of newborn infants when those birth parents wish to make an adoption plan for their children.

CHILDREN IN NEED OF ADOPTIVE HOMES
Children of all ages, races, and religions are in need of adoptive homes. Infants may be in need of adoptive homes because the birth parents do not feel that they can currently meet the needs of the child. In this instance, birth parents can make an adoption plan for their child’s adoptive placement. When making this plan, birth parents receive counseling on options, including whether to parent, to ensure that they are making an informed decision.

Other children available for adoption enter the child welfare system because of a situation that resulted in the child’s placement in foster care. Most of the children receiving adoption services are in foster homes and are adopted by their foster parents. Many have experienced the effects of abuse, neglect, prenatal substance abuse, and separation from their birth families. Parents are given opportunities to correct the conditions that caused the child to enter foster care. When parents are not successful in having their children reunited with them, the Juvenile Court may terminate parental rights so that children can achieve permanence through adoption.

The Baby Fold gathers as much information as possible about children who are in need of adoptive homes in order to select families that will meet their needs. At their level of understanding, children receive counseling to help them understand why they cannot return to their birth families. Children and adoption workers work together to create "life books" for children that help prepare them for adoption. Many children in foster care who are adopted will be eligible for adoption assistance, which will provide ongoing financial support, medical coverage, and counseling services after the adoption is finalized. All adopted children in Illinois are eligible to receive free Adoption Preservation services until they are 18 years old.

BIRTH PARENTS

Birth parents receive counseling to help them understand options available to them so that they can make informed choices. Pregnancy counselors help them understand the importance of providing complete information about their family and medical background so that their child will have that information as they grow older. Birth parents who make an adoption plan may choose varying degrees of open communication and contact that will then be matched with prospective adoptive parents. When parental rights have been terminated in Juvenile Court, birth parents do not usually have the opportunity for any ongoing contact with their children.

ADOPTIVE PARENTS

Adoptive parents must meet the requirements specified in the Illinois Adoption Act. Intensive training and support services are provided to prospective adoptive parents. They must become licensed and receive training to help them prepare for the challenges of adoptive parenting and understand adoption issues. Likewise, a home study must be completed and approved. The adoption worker assists adoptive parents withcompleting applications for Adoption Assistance for children who are eligible and prepares the adoptive home study and all the necessary documentation for the court so that the adoption can be finalized.
Non-relative foster parents must meet all Illinois foster home licensing standards. Adoptive parents must live within The Baby Fold’s 50-county service area in central Illinois.

 

ADOPTION PROGRAMS

Healthy Infant Adoption

The Healthy Infant Adoption Program helps people who desire to adopt newborn to three-year-old children. These children have been surrendered to The Baby Fold by birth parents who made an adoption plan.

Fees: For Healthy Caucasian Infant Adoption, The Baby Fold’s fees range from $7,000 to $10,000 or more, depending on birth expenses. Adoptive parents also need to pay legal fees for adoption.

The wait for a child can be from six months to a few years depending on your openness regarding birth parent and child history. The Baby Fold encourages adoptive parents to develop open relationships with birth families.

Special Needs Adoption

Hundreds of children in Illinois are waiting for adoptive families. These children have come into care due to abuse, neglect, or dependency issues in their birth home. Those with the greatest need are:
• Children with physical, emotional, medical, behavioral, or educational needs
• Children of school age or older
• Siblings who need homes together

Fees: There are no agency fees for the family who adopts a waiting child. Adoption Assistance may be available to cover related living, medical, and legal expenses.

International Adoption

The Baby Fold is considered a supervising agency for International Adoption. This means that we can complete an adoption homestudy, provide training, and license adoptive families. We assist adoptive parents with paperwork for Immigration and Naturalization Services. The Baby Fold has developed partnership agreements with four agencies that provide placement services to the adoptive parents. The Baby Fold also provides post-placement supervision when the adoptive parents and children return to the United States and completes reports requested by the sending country.

Fees: Fees for International Adoption consist of a $1500 homestudy fee and a $250 post-placement fee for each visit required by the sending country.

To begin the adoption process, contact the Adoption Unit at:
The Baby Fold
612 Oglesby Avenue
Normal, IL 61761
Phone: (309) 454-1770
Fax: (309) 454-9257

 

POST ADOPTION SERVICES
The Baby Fold
612 Oglesby Avenue
Normal, IL 61761
Phone: (309) 454-1770
Fax: (309) 454-9257

Post adoption services are available to adopted individuals, adoptive parents, and birth parents whose children have been adopted and birth siblings of the adopted individual. These services provide counseling, information, search and reunion services, mediated contact and referrals to individuals whose lives have been affected by an adoption that was facilitated by The Baby Fold.

The Baby Fold offer post adoption services to birth parents that can enable them to send and receive information through The Baby Fold, if the adoptive parents agree. The Baby Fold also assists birth parents in facilitating contact with children surrendered for adoption after those children are adults, if the children are willing to have contact.

 

PREGNANCY COUNSELING
The Baby Fold
612 Oglesby Avenue
Normal, IL 61761
Phone: (309) 454-1770
Fax: (309) 454-9257

The Baby Fold’s pregnancy counseling program provides counseling and support services to expectant parents to assist them in dealing with options related to the pregnancy, birth, and future care of their child. Birth parents identify what needs to be addressed, including medical care, financial assistance, housing, employment, educational services, child care, parenting and adoption.

An assessment is completed to help birth parents identify the needs that they have related to the pregnancy. Areas that can be discussed include:

  • Medical care
  • Financial assistance
  • Housing
  • Parental rights
  • Employment
  • Parenting
  • Adoption
  • Foster care
  • Child development
  • Educational services
  • Baby care
  • Individual, couple, and family counseling.
  • Grief and loss
  • Preventing future unplanned pregnancies
  • Decision making
  • Living arrangements
  • Building healthy relationships
  • Prevention of STDs and AIDS

    The desired outcome is that the birth parents will make a decision that will meet the needs of the child.
 

PARENTING SUPPORT

When individuals choose to parent their child, The Baby Fold offers Family Support Services to ensure that parents have the resources and support needed to be the best possible parents. Services offered include assistance in locating housing, parenting classes, seeking employment, and childcare.

 

MAKING AN ADOPTION PLAN

In making an adoption plan for a child, birth parents are placing the needs of the child above their own. Adoption may be the most loving decision that they can make.
In order to legally make an adoption plan for a child, both birth parents must sign surrender documents in front of a counselor or a judge. If the birth father is uncooperative or cannot be located, legal steps can facilitate this process. Birth parents are assisted in this process every step of the way.

When individuals choose to make an adoption plan for their child, The Baby Fold carefully prepares adoptive families for the adoption experience. Adoptive families go through an intensive home study and licensing process before being approved. Adoptive parents are educated about the benefits of ongoing contact and communication with birth parents. Adoptive parents make commitments regarding the level of openness with birth parents that they are willing to accept. Birth parents are presented with the profiles of adoptive families that accept the level of openness that the birth parents desire. Birth parents can be actively involved in the selection of an adoptive family by choosing from several adoptive family profiles. Birth parents’ requests and preferences are taken seriously. Birth parents may also meet the adoptive parents, if they choose to do so.

The Baby Fold believes it is important to share information about the birth parents with the adoptive parents so that they can answer the child’s questions as the child grows. It is also important for a child to know the birth family’s medical history.

Birth parents may see their child following delivery. We encourage birth parents to spend time with the baby prior to placement. When birth parents are certain that they want to make an adoption plan for their child, it is possible to place the child directly with the adoptive family. When birth parents have any doubts, the child can live for a short period of time with a foster family that is licensed by The Baby Fold, while the birth parents make their final decision. Visits between the birth parents and the child can be arranged during this time.

Each adoption plan includes an agreement between the birth parents and adoptive parents that The Baby Fold facilitates and that addresses their desires for ongoing communication and contact. The options for ongoing communication and contact range from very little communication, to contact that is mediated by The Baby Fold, to a very open adoption arrangement. The agreement seeks to respect the wishes of everyone involved. The agreement is flexible, as the needs of the birth parents, adoptive parents, and child may change over time. Serving the best interests of the child is always at the heart of these agreements.

Prior to the final adoption hearing, The Baby Fold asks adoptive parents to share photographs and reports with the birth parents regarding the child’s adjustment. The Baby Fold can help facilitate contact between the birth parents and the adoptive parents via letters and pictures over the years.

Birth Parent Support Group

The Baby Fold offers a birth parent support group to assist birth parents in connecting with others who understand the loss of making an adoption plan for a child. This group can help birth parents heal from this experience. Any birth parent who has made an adoption plan for a child is invited to join the birth parent support group. This group provides an opportunity for healing, emotional support and personal growth. Meetings are held on the first Wednesday of every month from 5:30 – 7:00 p.m. at The Baby Fold, 612 Oglesby Ave., Normal, IL 61761.

To learn more about the birth parent support group, or to sign up, contact:
The Baby Fold
612 Oglesby Avenue
Normal, IL 61761
Phone: (309) 454-1770
Fax: (309) 452-9257

 

Frequently Asked Questions about The Baby Fold’s Pregnancy Counseling Program

Who will know about my pregnancy?

Information you share with us is confidential. If you wish, we can help you talk with others involved in planning for your pregnancy.

Will I be expected to place my child for adoption?

Only if you wish to do so. We want to help you be a parent to your child if that is your choice. We will assist you in finding the resources and information you need so that you can be the best possible parent for your child.

If I make an adoption plan, what will I know about the adoptive family?

You can actively be involved in the selection of an adoptive family. The amount of information that you will know about the adoptive family is based on the level of openness you desire. You will also receive information about the adoptive family from their family profile which is a photo album that shares the family’s history and reasons they are wishing to adopt.

Can I meet the adoptive parents?

Yes, you can choose to do so. Your counselor will tell you about the various levels of openness you can have in adoption. You can choose the level, type, and frequency of contact you desire to have with the adoptive family you select.

Will the adoptive parents know anything about me?

The Baby Fold believes it is important to share non-identifying information about you with the adoptive parents because your child will ask questions about you as he or she grows. Also, sharing information about you and your family’s medical history and social background is important for the care of your child. This sharing of non-identifying information is especially important if you choose not to have an open or semi-open adoption.

Can I see my baby following delivery?

Yes! We encourage you to spend as much time as you want with your baby prior to placement.

Is it possible for my child to be placed directly with the adoptive family?

Yes, if you are certain that you want to make an adoption plan for your child. If you have any doubts, your child can live for a short period of time with you or with a foster family that is licensed and supervised by The Baby Fold, while you make your final decision. Visits between you and your child can be arranged during this time.

Will I know how my child is doing?

Yes. If you choose an open adoption you can get this information first hand from the adoptive family. If not, prior to the final adoption hearing, The Baby Fold asks adoptive parents to share photographs and reports regarding your child’s progress. The Baby Fold can facilitate contact between you and the adoptive parents via letters and pictures over the years in a semi-open adoption.

What must I do legally in order to make an adoption plan for my child?

In Illinois, you and the father of your child will have to sign surrender documents in front of your counselor or a judge. If the birth father is uncooperative or cannot be located, legal steps can be taken to facilitate this process. You will be assisted every step of the way.

Is adoption really a loving option?

Yes! In making an adoption plan for your child, you are placing the needs of your child above your own. Adoption may be the most loving decision you can make.
Can The Baby Fold provide any financial assistance?
Health insurance or public assistance will usually pay medical expenses. If this is not true for you, your medical expenses related to the pregnancy will be covered if you make an adoption plan through The Baby Fold.

Can The Baby Fold help with housing?

We can assist you in looking for housing, maternity home care, and foster family care.

 

OUR PROMISES TO YOU:

  • We’re here for you as long as you need us, before and after your baby is born.
  • We will work with you to help you make the best possible decision for you and your baby.
  • Counseling is always free to you and anyone else involved in the pregnancy.
  • If you cannot travel to us, we will come to you – anywhere in Central Illinois.The Baby Fold’s pregnancy counseling program is completely voluntary, confidential, and free of charge. Services are available to the expectant mother, the father of the child, and other family members or significant individuals that the birth parents choose to involve. Anyone living within a 100-mile radius of The Baby Fold that desires The Baby Fold’s service is eligible. Services can be provided in the individual’s home community if that is most convenient. Counselors at The Baby Fold are trained to help you with the difficult decisions you need to make.

    For more information or to make an appointment, contact the pregnancy counseling program at:
    The Baby Fold
    612 Oglesby Avenue
    Normal, IL 61761
    Phone: (309) 454-1770
    Fax: (309) 454-9257


 
 
 
   
 
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